Expertise: over the years, many friends and family members have come to me with a smorgasbord of life situations. i draw from this well of knowledge and helpful insight as i continue to experience life with everyone who happens to entrust that big or small part of their journey with me. lest you think of me as a shrink or a duly-licensed practitioner, i should warn you--i am NOT a professional. i do not happen to think of myself as the most reliable source of help you can rely on. i just let my track record with my friends' little sitches speak for itself. here's how it works: if you would like to ask for my help, you have two options. you can email me at jay_yaj_12@hotmail.com, OR you can post your question right here. if your concern is your privacy, then i suggest you go the email route and request that your name not be published when i give my answer.